Last night, Kevin and I were working in the studio when in comes Colin. It was 9:30 at night. He had been asleep in his bed, but decided to get up, come downstairs, get a bag of bagels out of the cabinet, and help himself to a late night snack.
Monday, August 29, 2011
I swear, it's like my daddy come back to earth in that boy.
Looking at him from behind, he has the same neck. His head is shaped like Daddy's. His ears stick out like Daddy's.
From the front, he has some of the same expressions. A serious look with eyebrows furrowed. A completely irritated look with daggers shooting from his eyes.
He's stubborn. He has tantrums. He is quick to anger, but just as quick to laugh. Not unlike my daddy at all.
He is his own person. 100% Colin through and through.
It's just that sometimes, especially when he gets up in the middle of the night for a snack, furrowing his brow at me when I tell him, "you have to go back to bed," I can't help but wonder how on earth my daddy taught him so much in the short short time he had with him.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
This space sits quietly. Ignored for shinier spaces where I can be shallow.
I pin pretty things.
I post pictures and videos without the conversation surrounding them.
I speak in abbreviated thoughts, never really saying anything.
Here is the place where I am raw. Vulnerable. I end up feeling too deeply. Thinking too long. I haven't been in the mood to share.
Milestones have come and gone without me breathing even the smallest detail about them. Kevin's birthday. First steps and first words. Summer camps and swimming lessons. A small vacation. Our fifth anniversary, and I didn't even post a song this year.
I've lost my voice.
Last Friday night, we had a gig. Bill's voice was almost gone, and he asked me to fill in for him on some of the songs he couldn't sing. We worked our way through the set that night, trading lead and harmonies, singing some in unison, and letting him just sit some out.
On the way home, I realized that I had lost my voice. Gone. I couldn't speak a word. The boys had shared some upper respiratory virus. Between the virus and taxing my voice at the gig, I was rendered silent for days.
I can't lie. I didn't mind much. It was comfortable to be silent in real life for a few days. I came out of it with so much to say, though. I have so much to say - all stored up somewhere inside me.
This year has left me feeling rather drained. Like a virus I just can't shake.
It's taken my voice.
I need to take it back.